Is this appropriate? (Queen Lynxana-related)

Hi all,

Assuming she just doesn't go back and "self-censor" herself by editing her post - is this appropriate for our General discussion forum?

http://www.thundercatslair.org/forums/showpost.php?p=48598&postcount=218

If it was in the Great Void then I'd say it was fine, but is it a bit...TMI for the General forum? :confused:

I'm not saying it would warrant punitive action or anything like that, just wondered if it was a bit much? I'm not a big Queen Lynxana fan so thought I'd throw this over here for some (hopefully) unbiased opinions, LOL! :D

Take care... :)

Too much info, probably. But inappropriate, I don't know.

It's not like she is promoting the use of drugs or using fowl language. While bordering on a teen/mature topic, she does give a moral high-ground point of view. But at the same time, I don't like the idea of this kind of topic being common in the general forums.

Personally, I feel letting this slide is the best course. Sounds like she had one hell of a bad night and still showed a lot of restraint in discussing it.

Yeah I don't think she's broken any rules. To be honest I feel really sorry for her :( It's no wonder she turns to the bottle so often. Her husband sounds like a right knob! :mad:

Definately leave it up as I think she's crying out for help and advice...

Ummm.... I'm just at a loss for words after reading her latest post in the thread. I don't think there's any broken rules on it, but just wanted to point it out just in case.

Chris here...

I don't think it breaks any of our rules but it's slightly derailing the thread. I'm totally at a loss as to what (if anything) to do about it, I really think it's getting a bit out-of-hand but at the same time it doesn't technically break any rules... :confused:

I did already know she was bi - it doesn't bother me, so was my first girlfriend! ;) But, I think we're edging closer and closer into Great Void territory...

One thing I could almost guarantee you is that she's half-cut and all of this is talking out of the bottom of a glass! :(

I think she needs help and I actually feel very sorry for her...but at the same time she is a very inappropriate person and this latest instalment is all part of that...really stumped with this one...! :(

Take care... :)

HAH! Oh, that's fantastic. Sorry, but from an entertainment standpoint, I think it's great. She seems to have this fascination with blogging or starting posts on every feeling she's got - whether it's being bisexual or whether her husband's slagging her off. She's not breaking any rules - but if it wasn't here, she'd be doing it somewhere else. I prefer her being friendly to her being an annoying drunkard that agressively posts about bucking the forum admins or something mad that she's done in the past. I'd let it go - unless she starts something with other forum members.

Afraid I'm no longer unbiased on the subject of queen. Don't know if any of you are members of my site's facebook group or not, but the prior weekend she went on a bender and taunted another member on the wall of the group from 3 am til 6 am (she was completely drunk off her a$$), causing me (and who knows how many other members with email notifications turned on) to wake up to over 100 emails of absolute inappropriate BS to sort out. Upon reprimand, she challenged me and my group admins to ban her, so they did. She then went on to get personal about my mods on her own FB wall, who also happen to be close friends of mine, and unfriended them. The personal attack finally tore it for me and I've cut her completely out of my life. She's off my personal FB, blog etc etc. I want nothing more to do with her in any form and finally realize I can't help her, I can't save her. I'm done.

I've known her since 2004 but I'm so done being manipulated by her, and drawn into her drama. No doubt some of her probs are real, but I think she uses it to her advantage at times to manipulate and the cynic in me wonders if this latest episode with her husband isn't exaggerated or made up to play for sympathy since she's ****ed off a lot of people at my group, some of them people she supposedly respected in the fandom, but got no response to bizarre PMs the night after the whole drama/unfriending debacle. So now she's taking her personal drama to fandom forums hoping to win over sympathy I suspect, so either anyone who saw that drama fest on FB will forget or forgive her because bawwww queenie's life is so hard. Hell, frankly she brings A LOT of issues on herself with decisions she herself makes.

She sent one of my FB mods a bizarre PM here the other night, rambling about how she's catholic so she has to apologize but she doesn't remember what for (it was a very insincere apology at that...more like a tone of "sorry you got insulted by whatever little thing I must have done" thing) - she thought they had unfriended her but it was the other way around with them. ugh. I've begged her to get help and give up booze for years and she'll do ok for a while and then fall horribly off. I just can't deal with this crap anymore. There is just so much history and so much to say, I don't even know where to begin. But if you're going to try to be friendly with her, it will probably not last. She will inevitably implode the friendship, for what cause idk. And cause a big fat spectacle on your fan board while she's doing it, then turn it around on you saying something idiotic like "it's fandom, not real life". haha

At any rate, my overall point is if queenie needs modding, you all best exercise your own judgment. I'm sure any actions taken by me will be skewed by her and cause more drama, and frankly, I have no desire to ever interact with her again for any purpose and in any form. In true scorpio fashion, when I'm done with you, I'm done lol

ugh, good luck with her.

Ah, so that's what her one ramble about needing to apologize was about. That sucks that that happened. But I completely understand your point of view. Being drunk really isn't a good reason for going on a flaming rampage.

Chris here...

Angie, really sorry to hear about the problems you've had with Queen Lynxana - I understand why you'd be at the end of your tether, she really is a mess! :(

I think perhaps the best and most diplomatic thing to do as regards this thread is if we all post something non-QueenL-related in there to try and steer it back round - I'll start it off... :)

Take care... :)

Thanks, Chris.

omg if you could see the record of what she posted on the FB wall you would die. And then the crap she said about the guy, my friend, that banned her was unforgivable. UGH.

I suspect all of her recent hi-lighting of her personal issues is a ploy for sympathy in case stuff starts boiling over about this wank she had at my facebook page gets out...she's already garnered pity. So then me and my friends will just seem like unsympathetic hard-a$$es. I'm not sure what other purpose it would serve other than maybe to also try to draw out me and the other two friends of mine that are involved into responding to her. I'm that cynical at this point.

So far she has not apologized at all to me. She sent me one weird PM when she was doing those papertrail posts on boards (which she later deleted or edited) warning me to "look into it" if "he" does something to her. I assume the he was her husband. I mean really. You're going to PM someone that just unfriended you from their online life about something this serious. Call the damn police. She also has family close by. I mean I see it now, that it's a game to her. I'm sure she thought such an extreme cry would get me to act, but I did nothing because I saw it for the emotional manipulation it was.

She's a queen, alright. A drama queen. Just beware guys. It took me 7 years to wise up. *sigh* I will never speak to her again.

Yep she's certainly an attention seeker alright :rolleyes:

I've had my problems in the past (and ashamably resorted to excessive drinking) but I've never felt the need to log on to He-Man.org and cause trouble (infact I've been too wasted for that!) The problem is she keeps on doing the same crap time and time again. Maybe her life is so mundane and boring, she feels the need to drink and then go on a rampage on the net?

She certainly isn't your typical alky, as those are the ones that drink themselves silly until they pass out :(

She's certainly a strange one...

I have a suggestion (getting back to thread topic). Maybe we should make some sort of mature or adult What are you doing thread in the Void forum.

Then we (hopefully) would not have to worry about mature issues in the public area...

Chris here...

"mcss aerocoupe, post: 49295" said:

I have a suggestion (getting back to thread topic). Maybe we should make some sort of mature or adult What are you doing thread in the Void forum.

Then we (hopefully) would not have to worry about mature issues in the public area...

I like this suggestion - it would certainly be a place where people could discuss deeper / more mature issues and would stop this thread keep getting derailed (which it has again). I think some people might be seeing the deep and meaningful conversation and it's putting people off from posting in there... :)

What do the rest of you guys think? :)

Take care... :)

I agree. It's getting awkward in there either way. One guy tried to get it back on track and then she made some remark at him for ignoring her serious post. oh brother!

It's starting to spiral now. I'll try to split the more mature posts and then add a post to give people a heads up.

Chris here...

"mcss aerocoupe, post: 49627" said:

It's starting to spiral now. I'll try to split the more mature posts and then add a post to give people a heads up.

Thanks for this, you've done a fantastic job here, very much appreciated! :thumbsup:

Take care... :)

No problem. I could see the most recent topics were getting closer and closer to crossing into Great Void territory. I figured it would be a perfect time for the new thread to be born.

Chris here...

Different thread but same loose cannon poster, do you guys think this post is cool?

http://www.thundercatslair.org/forums/showpost.php?p=49823&postcount=5

...Because I must admit I'm a Star Wars fan of 10+ years and find it slightly offensive...I also think she's once again talking through the bottom of a glass. :(

EDIT: Did a half-jokey post to try and diffuse things, hopefully she gets the message. I just can't help but visualise someone effectively posting "All fans of this property must have a mental illness" as kicking off a flame war, I'm sure I can't be the only person on the forums who's a fan of Star Wars as well as ThunderCats! :(

Take care... :)

I don't know. I think the rest of the forum defused the situation... I'm surprised at how it turned out actually.

Chris here...

"mcss aerocoupe, post: 49889" said:

I don't know. I think the rest of the forum defused the situation... I'm surprised at how it turned out actually.

Yep, I spotted one post that reacted badly to Lynxie's post and the rest just kind-of used humour to deflate the situation - proof I guess that sometimes folks can sort things out for themselves without a mod having to step in, a good reminder for me! :)

I will say that I think the thread is going slightly OT, so I'm going to take an executive decision and start up a Star Wars thread on the General forum - I don't think the problem is too bad because all anyone desperately needs to read to get information is all on the first page IMO, but still, I think a thread on the General forum to siphon some of the Star Wars-specific content of the thread would be a good idea! :)

Take care... :)